Tourist Tragedies in Meghalaya

A Call For Accountability and Safety

As someone who grew up in Shillong, studied, and worked as a journalist in the city, I am deeply concerned about the recent incidents that have shaken the tourism industry in Meghalaya. The mysterious disappearance of the newlywed couple from Indore, with the husband’s body recovered and the wife still missing, is a matter of utmost concern.

Missing Honeymoon Couple

Sonam (26) and Raja Raghuvanshi (28), both from Indore, Madhya Pradesh, were on their honeymoon. They checked into a homestay at Nongrait village in East Khasi Hills on May 22. The very next day, they checked out and were never seen again. Raja’s body was later found in a gorge near Sohra (Cherrapunji), while Sonam is still missing. Their families lost contact with them on May 23.

According to Raja’s family, he had planned everything carefully—he hired a local guide and rented a scooter. That scooter was later found parked by the roadside above the famous living root bridge, keys still in the ignition. It looked like they may have stepped out for a quick photo, and then vanished.

The Meghalaya police’s claim that the husband was hacked to death after being robbed raises more questions than answers. This incident, coupled with the earlier case of the Hungarian tourist who went missing in February, suggests a pattern that warrants thorough investigation. The authorities’ response to the Hungarian tourist’s case, attributing his death to venturing alone without local guides, seems inadequate, especially given the lack of further investigation.

Rainbow Falls near the Living Root Bridge – Nongrait

What’s striking is the contrast between the Shillong of my childhood and the city it has become. Until the mid-1990s, Shillong was a quiet and clean city, not particularly known for tourism. However, with the government’s aggressive marketing efforts, the state has become a prime destination, leading to a surge in tourist footfall. While this has brought economic benefits, it has also led to unplanned growth, with homestays and hotels mushrooming in tourist areas, making Shillong and its surroundings congested.

The recent incident has sparked a heated debate on social media, with some defending Meghalaya’s reputation as a tourist spot and others calling for tourists to boycott the state. In an internet age where messages travel at lightning speed, authorities need to be careful and sensitive about what they say to protect their state’s reputation. The state tourism minister’s statement in a section of the press that such incidents are common in other states and shouldn’t tarnish Meghalaya’s image is not only insensitive but also irresponsible.

The visit of the Madhya Pradesh MP to Shillong and his meeting with Chief Minister Conrad Sangma is a welcome step. The MP’s concern about the safety of tourists and the need for a thorough investigation is shared by many. The kin of the couple have demanded a CBI inquiry, which is a reasonable demand given the circumstances. However, the government’s response to this demand remains to be seen.

It's disturbing to note that Raja's body was discovered after eight days, 20 kilometers away from where he had parked his scooter. It's widely argued that had the authorities immediately involved the army and air force on the first day, precious lives might have been saved, and the miscreants' plan thwarted. As Sonam remains untraced on the thirteenth day, this raises serious questions about the government's priorities and response to the incident.

Chief Minister Sangma called the case very unfortunate and said nothing like this had happened before in Meghalaya. He assured the family that the government was doing all it could to locate Sonam, who remains missing.

Living Root Bridge – Nongrait

The fact that the government has remained silent on the demand to involve the Indian army in search operations raises questions about their priorities. As someone who knows the state and its people, I believe it’s essential for the government to take concrete steps to ensure tourist safety. Implementing CCTV cameras, deploying local tourist police, and collaborating with the army and air force for search operations in emergency situations are essential measures.

The tourism industry thrives on peace, safety, and security. The government must prioritise transparency and accountability to restore faith among tourists and prevent such incidents in the future. It’s time for the Meghalaya government to take a proactive approach to address these concerns and ensure that tourists feel safe and secure in the state. Anything less would be a disservice to the people who call it home.


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Sindoor and the Silence We Needed

A look at India’s quick retaliation, rising risks with China–Pakistan

On the night of May 6–7, 2025, India launched airstrikes on nine targets across the Line of Control. The mission was called Operation Sindoor. It was a quick and intense response to the brutal terror attack in Pahalgam that had happened just two weeks earlier. In that attack, terrorists entered the meadow in Pahalgam and killed tourists after asking about their religion. The nation was shocked and angry. The pain was fresh. But was a war-like response the best answer?

Pahalgam Meadow Where Tragedy Struck 

Pravin Sawhney, a former Army officer and defence analyst, explained Operation Sindoor in great detail. Watch his video towards the bottom of this article. According to him, Sindoor wasn't exactly a war. It was a "crisis" – something just below a hot war. But what makes it worrying is how easily the line between peace and war is now being crossed. And it’s happening more often.

The Pre-War Shift

Sawhney explains the idea of a "pre-war stage." This is the phase when armies start mobilising. Pakistan, due to its geography, can send its troops and launch its offensive forces within 48 to 72 hours. India takes longer, especially to move its strike forces from central parts of the country.

Back in 2001–2002, during Operation Parakram, India took two weeks to fully mobilise. Now that time has reduced, but it still isn’t as quick as Pakistan. So, if there’s a sudden act of terror and India decides to respond with military action, Pakistan has a time edge.

Lowering the War Threshold

In 2019, India used its Air Force for the first time in a crisis when it carried out the Balakot strikes. That was a shift. The IAF had never been used in that way against Pakistan. It became the new normal.

Then came Sindoor. This time, both drones and missiles were freely used – not just in Jammu, but along the full border. That’s a second shift. Now, both countries might feel free to use drones and missiles even during a tense situation, not just full-scale war.

The Prime Minister even said that “any act of terror will now be treated as an act of war.” But what does that mean for the Indian Army? That it must be ready for war every time there’s a terror attack?

Sawhney’s warning is simple – we’re moving into a dangerous zone where peace and war are no longer clearly separated.

A Hidden Player: China

There’s more. Pravin Sawhney also talks about the idea of Multi-Domain Warfare – where war isn’t just about land, air, or sea. It includes space, cyber, and electronic attacks. This concept didn’t just come out of thin air. It’s been shaped over time by joint China–Pakistan military drills, especially the long-running Shaheen exercises. What started as basic air force collaboration has now grown into a larger, coordinated plan for modern warfare.

File Photo: Air Forces of China & Pakistan

Pakistan and China now train together in these multi-domain operations. They call it PAF–PLA Multi-Domain Coordination. So when India hits Pakistan, it’s not a solo game. China is watching, and possibly helping behind the scenes.

According to Stockholm International Peace Research Institute, 80% of Pakistan’s weapons now come from China. In the recent conflict, Pakistan used Chinese jets to strike Indian targets. There are even claims – not officially denied – that one Indian Rafale jet may have been brought down.

China’s growing defence tech has made this more complex. Their J-10 and JF-17 fighter jets are becoming backbone assets for Pakistan. China’s PL-15 long-range air-to-air missiles give them a major edge. Their BeiDou satellite constellation of 44 satellites supports precise navigation, surveillance, and targeting for PLA–PAF joint AEW&C (Airborne Early Warning and Control) platforms. Add to that their edge in electronic jamming, cyber tools, and signal intelligence – and you see a new kind of battlefield taking shape.

Adding to the complexity, Pakistan’s Air Marshal Aurangzeb Ahmed cleverly fed false information to international media. This was part of an information war – mixing facts, fiction, and noise to confuse and shape global opinion. Sawhney warns that information itself is now a weapon, and India must catch up fast.

In contrast, Indian authorities chose not to confirm or deny key details and responded with the generic statement: “losses are a part of combat.” This silence, while perhaps intended to avoid escalation, gave Pakistan the upper hand in the international narrative. It added weight to their version of events, especially in foreign media.

China and Pakistan are getting closer. We cannot afford to ignore this.

The Human Cost

A Survivor Beside 
Her Slain Husband

Operation Sindoor may have killed around 100 terrorists, including big names from Lashkar and Jaish. But did it stop terror? Not likely. After the 2016 surgical strikes, there was Pulwama. After Balakot, there was Pahalgam. Quick airstrikes don’t erase deep-rooted terror networks.

The sad truth is that 26 people died in Pahalgam, and 26 more died after Sindoor - 21 civilians and 5 army personnel. Most of them lived in border villages. No plan was made to move them to safer places. No warnings were given. For them, war was not news - it came to their doorsteps.

Money Matters

Wars are expensive. A Rafale fighter jet uses 2,900 litres of fuel per hour in normal mode and over 9,000 litres in combat. Each missile costs at least ₹20 lakh. India was the second-largest arms importer last year, after Ukraine.

Can two nuclear nations afford this kind of spending over terror attacks? The economic cost is huge. And it adds up every time national emotions push us into action.

Diplomacy Undermined

During the Sindoor crisis, the U.S. claimed it brokered the ceasefire. Donald Trump even offered to mediate on Kashmir – an embarrassment for India, which has always insisted on bilateral talks. Behind the scenes, Indian and Pakistani officials were already in communication. But public statements and bravado threatened to undo that effort.

Modi later said, “Terror and trade talks cannot happen together.” But Trump said the U.S. would only do business with India and Pakistan if the fighting stopped. That’s how foreign powers used the situation for their own gains.

What Did Sindoor Achieve?

Maybe it gave people a sense of closure. Maybe it sent a message. But did it stop terrorism? Did it prevent future attacks? So far, the answer is no.

As some experts have said, fighting terror needs quiet, consistent effort – not emotional

Armed Forces Brief Media

decisions and shows of strength. Bravery is good, but wisdom is better.

What larger objective did Operation Sindoor serve? If anything, it has shown that a few men with guns can drag a country of a billion into a war posture.

Despite all these threats and downs, the Indian Armed Forces' integrity in upholding democracy since India's partition in 1947 is truly commendable. Unlike in Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal and other neighbouring countries where military coups have taken political powers, the Indian Armed Forces have never shown interest in grabbing power – rather, they have always stood as the defenders of democracy. That in itself is a remarkable strength.

Sometimes, silence and restraint are stronger than sound and fury.

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Acknowledgement: This article draws from the insights of defence expert Pravin Sawhney. Watch his full video on Operation Sindoor here

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Celebrating Prof. S.K. Acharya: A Brilliant Mind with a Playful Spirit

Reflecting on His Impact and Unforgettable Moments, 30 Years On

A Familiar View–Sketch by Prof Acharya 

As we approach the 30th anniversary of Prof. Salil Krishna Acharya’s passing on November 17, 2024, a flood of mixed thoughts comes to mind. While I’m proud of his pioneering work—like his blueprint for connecting the Ganges and Brahmaputra, which envisioned bringing Northeast India onto the international maritime map, and his founding of the Shillong Commerce College with groundbreaking courses—the lack of recognition by the authorities remains a painful reminder.

In Thought

In the 1970s, shortly after the formation of the State of Meghalaya, Dad prepared a ‘Blueprint for Industrialisation of Meghalaya’ and conducted a study on ‘Agriculture in Meghalaya, Mizoram, and the Mikir & North Cachar Hills’. His insights on education were also captured in articles such as ‘Professional Education in Degree Colleges’.

Beyond his intellectual achievements, Prof. Acharya had a deep love for the arts. An avid admirer of Indian literature, he was a fan of George Bernard Shaw, Shakespeare, and T.S. Eliot, and he even dabbled in poetry himself. His intricate sketches were renowned for their detail.

But, amid all his serious endeavors, it’s the other, more humorous side of Dad that sticks with me.

The Petticoat Episode

Dad had a habit of waking up early, cleaning the verandah, and settling in with his morning essentials: a cup of tea, a packet of cigarettes, The Statesman and The Economic Times, a Philips transistor radio, and sometimes his typewriter or a stack of papers. He loved this morning routine in the warmth of the Shillong sun. One autumn morning, however, my siblings and I were woken up by our mother, whispering, “Something’s off with what your dad is wearing!” We crept closer and burst into laughter—Dad was wearing Mom’s petticoat instead of his pajamas! Mom had mistakenly left it on his clothes rack the night before, and Dad, absorbed in his thoughts, put it on without realising. He even had dinner in it without anyone noticing!

The Case of the Missing Tie

Another gem was during an important conference at Gauhati University. After three days, Mom asked Dad how it went, and he spoke glowingly about Bellevue Hotel, where he stayed with S. Gurudev, a representative from The Statesman. They shared long conversations and a double room with a breathtaking view of the Brahmaputra. However, Dad mentioned that he was puzzled when he saw Gurudev wearing “his” blue Zodiac tie. When confronted, Gurudev insisted it was his own, and Dad, not wanting a fuss, let it go. But when he got home, Mom found his blue tie in the wardrobe! She stormed over, showed him the tie, and scolded, “You left your tie at home and embarrassed that poor man!” Dad, laughing, immediately called Mr. Gurudev to apologise.

The Suitcase Mix-Up

This final story is a classic family tale, passed down from my mom and aunts. One winter, Mom had escaped Shillong’s biting cold by staying with her parents in Lucknow. Dad was busy with his work and planned a trip to Lucknow to bring her back as spring approached. He packed his suitcase carefully ahead of time. But, in the morning rush, he grabbed the wrong suitcase—a near-identical one filled with old saris, blouses, pillow covers, and tablecloths. When he arrived in Lucknow and Mom opened the suitcase, expecting his clothes, she was mortified! Dad, however, found the whole situation hilarious, laughing heartily as he admitted that he’d been too preoccupied that morning to notice the switch. It was typical of him—so engrossed in his thoughts that practicalities sometimes took a back seat. Despite the inconvenience, the incident became a treasured family story, one that would make us laugh every time it was retold.

Another Hilarious Episode: Half-Human, Half-Cow!

Sometime in 1988 or 1989, while I was pursuing my post-graduation at NEHU, Dad traveled to Calcutta to make arrangements for our family's relocation. A few days later, he sent a detailed letter to Mom, excitedly describing a large flat he had rented in South Calcutta. The letter had a vivid description of each room, the washrooms, and the ample space for our Lhasa Apso, Dicky, to roam freely. Dad even wrote about the peaceful ambiance of the neighbourhood and its promising residents.

Mom read the letter aloud to me, but something about it didn't quite resonate. The next morning, as soon as I woke up, I recounted a bizarre dream I had to Mom. In my dream, the South Calcutta neighbourhood appeared outdated and shabby. Even stranger were its residents — from the waist up, they looked like normal humans, but from the waist down, they had cow-like legs! Every resident was a strange mix of human and bovine, half-man and half-cow!

Mom found my dream absolutely hilarious and shared it with Dad in her reply, followed by a trunk call. Dad was so entertained by my absurd vision of South Calcutta's half-human, half-cow residents that he brought it up many times over the years, laughing each time as if he had just heard it for the first time.

Dad’s playful ode to our beloved pet, Dicky, complete with a charming sketch and colorful signature.

Words from afar—a heartfelt letter penned from Calcutta during Dad's work trip.

Creativity on the fly—an old Air Mail envelope transformed into a sketchbook, capturing a slice of our surroundings – 'Bonokusum' House as viewed from our compound.

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Salil Acharya: The Forgotten Trailblazer

Honouring an Innovator Who Envisioioned a Better Northeast India!

As November 17 draws near, the ache of my father’s absence deepens. Professor Salil Acharya was a man far ahead of his time—a visionary who poured his intellect, heart, and tireless dedication into shaping the future of Shillong and Northeast India. His groundbreaking research, particularly the blueprint to connect the Ganges with the Brahmaputra, aimed to bring our region into the global maritime map, decades before it was a topic in government offices. Yet, today, his name is lost in the shadows, unmentioned and unrecognised by the very institutions and media that should champion his contributions.

It’s disheartening to see that only those with questionable credentials and flashy titles receive the limelight, while my father’s real and impactful work fades into oblivion. The Commerce College in Shillong, now the Shillong Commerce College, stands as another testament to his pioneering spirit. He founded it with a vision to bring new and futuristic education to this region, creating opportunities for students to step confidently into a changing world. Those who truly knew him, those who studied under him, and those he mentored—they will vouch for his brilliance and unwavering commitment.

Every November, memories of my father’s struggles and achievements flood my mind, reminding me of how much he gave to this place. But the silence of the authorities and the media’s apathy toward real stories hurt deeply.

Professor Salil Acharya gave so much to his city, and yet, our so-called “thought leaders” remain silent. The media, too, has lost sight of true journalism, often chasing stories that simply pay rather than honour real contributions. It’s frustrating to watch those who shape our society turn a blind eye to genuine legacy and brilliance.

On this November 17, I can only hope for a moment of reflection—a moment where the authorities and the media wake up to the impact of a man who never asked for recognition but deserves it. Professor Acharya's work was not just for his time; it was for the future of Shillong and Northeast India. To those who have the power to acknowledge, remember, and bring attention to his legacy: the time is now.

Let’s honour those who truly deserve it.

17 November 1994 AIR News Bulletin

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A True "Mid-Autumn Night's Dream"

Revisiting Cherished Memories from the Train!

Today, I stumbled upon a memoir from an old diary that I had written more than five years ago. It captured the buzz surrounding Train-18, the Indian Railways' pride before it was rechristened as the swanky Vande Bharat. 

In the soft glow of the train compartment, I settled comfortably into my window seat, ready to enjoy the journey ahead. Beside me sat a young couple, with the husband quietly absorbed in the passing landscape, while his wife, delicately leaning back, seemed halfway between sleep and wakefulness. The designer walls of the train, a calming shade of light blue, lent a touch of sophistication, a reminder of the sleek new experience aboard this modern Train-18.

Just as I was about to get lost in thought, I spotted a familiar face on the platform—a schoolmate I hadn’t seen in years. My voice cut through the noise of the bustling station as I called out his name, hoping he’d hear me. I was so close to jumping off to greet him, but the train had already begun moving, gathering speed with every second. Reluctantly, I stepped back, waving my hand from the doorway until he was just a distant blur on the platform. As the train raced onward, I returned to my compartment only to find that the young woman beside me had taken over my window seat, her head resting against it in a half-dream. Her husband remained engrossed in the outside world, a faint smile playing on his face as he watched the landscape.

Rather than disturb them, I took the aisle seat, admiring the ambiance of this swanky new

train. Somewhere a few compartments away, I heard the unmistakable sounds of an acoustic guitar, expertly strummed to the tune of "Sono Kono Ek Din.” The guitarist’s voice, smooth and resonant, filled the air, and as the song went on, passengers around him joined in chorus, their voices harmonising, hands tapping rhythmically to the beat. It felt like the whole train was caught up in the joy of the moment, bound together by this timeless melody. From my seat, I couldn’t resist humming along softly to the chorus, swept away by a sense of community that only music could create.

And then—would you believe it?—I woke up. It was 3:53 AM in chilly Delhi, and as the spell of the dream lifted, I couldn’t help but laugh. The entire experience, from the familiar faces and warm ambiance to the music and laughter, had all been part of a vivid dream. A true "Mid-Autumn Night's Dream" that left me with a lingering sense of warmth and nostalgia, and a need to capture every detail before the morning light swept it away.

Not wanting to let the magic fade, I immediately searched for the song on YouTube and listened to it a few times, savouring its nostalgic beauty before drifting back to sleep. Listening to Hemanta Mukhopadhyay's voice, alongside Salil Chowdhury's genius composition, was like stepping back into a golden era of Indian music. These legends were ahead of their time, crafting melodies that age like fine wine, growing richer and more cherished with every passing year. The pauses in the lyrics, the gentle lilt—it all made the song stand out in a way that felt utterly timeless.

Thank you, YouTube, for bringing back these priceless tracks. And to anyone reading this, I hope the next time you hear a classic tune, it brings you as much warmth and joy as it did for me in that dream. There’s something about these old melodies, like "Sono Kono Ek Din," that carries you away—reminding us of the timelessness of good music, and of moments that become memories, whether in waking life or in dreams. 

And so, with a grateful smile, I slipped back into slumber, letting the tune echo softly in my mind, like a cherished friend whispering stories from a beautiful, bygone time.

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Timeless Bonds Reunited: A Shillong Gathering to Remember

Surprise Guest of National Fame Elevates the Reunion!

The Shillong Rotaract Past Members Reunion on Saturday, August 10th, 2024, at the historic 

Sanchita Closeup

Shillong Club, was more than just a plan—it became a reality. Former members, now spread across the US, major Indian cities like Delhi, Kolkata, Bangalore, and Assam's capital, Guwahati, along with Shillong, came together to create new memories after more than three decades. The evening was filled with laughter, joy, and a series of exciting activities, all set against a backdrop of relaxed, semi-casual fashion. The night’s highlight? A surprise guest of national fame—Shillong’s very own Sanchita Dey, now Sanchita Nagaraj, who was recently crowned first runner-up at the Ms. Senior India 2024 pageant in Mumbai. Sanchita, a former Air India/Indian Airlines air hostess and past Shillong Rotaracter, added a touch of glamour to an already unforgettable evening.

Before diving into the details, let's take a moment to reflect on how this Reunion came to be.

It all started on July 17, 2023, when Michael Ashkenazy, based in New York, created a WhatsApp group named ‘Shillong Rotaract.’ Within weeks, the group buzzed with excitement as past members from the US and India joined in, turning the platform into a lively hub despite the different time zones. Stories of all kinds—good, bad, sad, and triumphant—flowed freely, with humour and nostalgia for the old Shillong Rotaract days becoming the norm. Thanks to the wonders of IT (Information Technology), long-lost members were able to reconnect.

The momentum grew when Pranta Das, based in San Francisco, came to India for a three-

Emily, Pranta, Kausar

week vacation starting November 27, 2023. His visit to Shillong  sparked a mini-reunion with past members Dora Rynjah, George Chacko, Swarup Choudhury, and Rajiv Nath on December 6 at the Pinewood Hotel. A few days later, on December 8, he met up with Emily Singha and Kausar Jamin Hilaly in Guwahati. These gatherings and the real-time photos shared in the group gave the WhatsApp members the push they needed to start planning even more meet-ups. 

Fast forward to July 2024: On Saturday, July 6, 2024, Michael shared some vibrant photos and video clips from a picnic he attended at Bronte Park, Burlington, near Toronto, Canada. The picnic was a gathering of folks with Shillong connections, many of whom live in the Toronto suburbs. Michael and George Joseph, who flew in from New York and Alabama, respectively, made the trip to join in the fun.

Michael and George 

The picnic had a unique theme displayed on a banner in a Google-like font: ‘Shillong Bamkhana,’ which means ‘have Shillong food’ in Khasi. The menu featured a spread of Khasi and Northeast Indian delicacies, and to top it off, the day was marked by servings of the traditional Shillong betel nut and leaf (kwai pan), along with guitar playing and classic melodies.

The photos and videos from this event, shared by Michael,
created a buzz among the Shillong Rotaract WhatsApp group members. The finesse and fun of the picnic left everyone thrilled, with comments and emoticons pouring in like rain. Nostalgia for Shillong days was palpable, and Michael floated the idea of having similar fun in Shillong. He mentioned that he might visit Shillong in the second week of August if others were up for it. The response was swift and enthusiastic, with members giving a thumbs-up. Michael then suggested holding the event on Saturday, August 10, at the heritage venue—The Shillong Club.

NE Delicacies

As the days dwindled, the excitement only grew more tangible. The countdown to the grand reunion had begun, and all eyes were on Michael, the magnetic force pulling everyone together. The core members busied themselves with booking the venue, finalising the food menu, and planning the event's activities. Meanwhile, members across India and the US were juggling schedules, trying to see if they could make it to this much-anticipated gathering.

In her meticulous way, Wansalan Passah, affectionately known as Wancy, took charge of organising the attendees. She created an Excel sheet listing the names of confirmed past members and shared it in the WhatsApp group, allowing everyone to update their final statuses. Just as everything seemed to be falling into place, the mood was suddenly dampened by unsettling news. A prominent Shillong pressure group allegedly assaulted non-tribal labourers, stirring tensions in the state capital. This incident, along with a US advisory warning its citizens against visiting Shillong and Northeast India, made headlines, painting a grim picture of the region.

Concern spread among the group, with many questioning whether it was wise to proceed with their plans. But Jaideep Majumdar, a senior journalist with a national media outlet, stepped in to calm the waters. He reassured everyone that the advisory was just that—an advisory, not a travel ban. He pointed out that such incidents happen in other cities too, and in fact, many US cities are far more dangerous by comparison. Citing a few news sources, he confidently declared Shillong safe for travel, rekindling the group's enthusiasm. His reassurance was echoed by Dora, Niloufer, Eva, Alarisha, Wancy, and many others, who were determined not to let this setback derail their plans.

Initially, the Excel sheet showed that nearly thirty members had confirmed their attendance for the reunion. But as the date drew closer, a few had to drop out due to work commitments, health issues, or other last-minute hurdles, promising they would definitely make it to the next event. Emily, who had been eagerly anticipating the gathering, was forced to cancel after fracturing her femur just a week before the reunion, requiring a major operation.

The Champs

The coordination between Michael, Parambir Singh Sehdave, popularly known as Param, and Wancy was nothing short of stellar, ensuring that the reunion was a grand success and an event everyone would remember for a lifetime. While Michael and Parambir initially handled the venue booking, snacks, and dinner arrangements, they were soon joined by Kausar, Jaideep, Abhijit Choudhury, and Bikash Saha in covering the costs. When word got out, other members were eager to chip in, but the necessary funds had already been secured. 

One of the highlights of the evening was the impeccable flex banner, which served as the backdrop for countless photo and video shoots, preserving the memories of this special night. Credit for this goes to Wancy, whose meticulous work shone through. Meanwhile, Christopher Lawlor, also known as Bobby, and based in Aizawl, crafted a brilliant memento that captured the enchanting essence of Meghalaya's landscapes.

And let's not forget Akash Deep Jain, who generously sponsored the evening's "spirits"—Scotch, whiskey, and more—raising everyone's glasses in a toast to the reunion. To set the mood, I created a special 30-minute nonstop audio file titled "ShillongRotaractGrooves," featuring a mix of deep house, trance, and remixes from the '80s to early 2000s, complete with special audio effects that kept the energy high.

By Thursday evening, August 8th, 2024, outstation members began trickling into the

Nazina, Imo, Siddiq

salubrious and picturesque hill capital of Meghalaya, Shillong. Among them was the renowned hot air balloon pilot and past Rotaract member, Imochaoba Singh, who had made the journey to join the gathering. On Friday evening, August 9th, Michael, Akash, Abhijit, Alarisha, Wancy, and Ela convened for a warm-up pre-event, an informal meet that set the tone for the weekend ahead.

True to its nature, Shillong's weather decided to put on a show, cycling through all four seasons—summer, winter, autumn, and spring—in just 24 hours. Meanwhile, down in Guwahati, a torrential downpour on the 8th of August flooded the city, raising concerns. Members flying in from distant cities, who had safely landed at the airport, were anxious about whether they could brave the flooded roads to make the journey to Shillong. But as if in answer to their prayers, the weather gods relented, clearing the skies just in time for a safe passage along the NH-40 Guwahati-Shillong Road, paving the way for a grand reunion.

On Saturday, August 10th, starting from 5:00 pm, members began streaming into the beautifully arranged hall of The Shillong Club. Anikadora Thankhiew and her husband, Rev.

J. S. Muskiar, were among the first to arrive, bringing along a large, beautifully decorated cake with a special message icing, marking the occasion. Meanwhile, George Chacko, driving in from Guwahati, sent a quick WhatsApp update—he was stuck in a traffic jam near Polo Grounds and advised others heading in from Guwahati to avoid that route once they reached Shillong. Rahul Sharma and Ashish Sabhrewal had already made it to the venue, while Kausar messaged that he might be delayed due to heavy traffic on the NH40.

Requests and alerts flooded in from our US and India-based members who couldn’t attend, eager to see photos and videos from the reunion. Their impatience was understandable.

The hall buzzed with excitement as members exchanged greetings, handshakes, and hugs. It was almost surreal—meeting after more than 35 years. Cellphone cameras lit up the room as everyone eagerly captured the moment, taking photos and recording short video clips to remember this special evening.

The moment Ms. Senior India 2024 first runner-up, Sanchita, made her entrance, all eyes—and

Ladies Circle

cameras—turned towards her. Her warm and gracious demeanour made it irresistible for members to pose with her, both in solo and group photos. Sporting her crown and sash that highlighted her winning title, Sanchita looked absolutely stunning in an overlap skirt paired with a metallic halter low-neck top, perfectly complemented by matching kitten heel stilettos.

I have recorded a short video from Instagram on the Ms. Senior Pageant India 2024 and uploaded it to YouTube to provide wider accessibility and appreciation. Please note, the video is not my original content. You can find the link to it towards the end of this blog post.

Star Moment

A quick mention—the first season of Senior Pageant India 2024, celebrating women aged 55 and above, made waves at Mumbai’s iconic Mukesh Patel Auditorium on Sunday, June 2, 2024. Over 200 contestants from across India competed, judged by luminaries like Bollywood’s Padmini Kolhapure, Sanjay Chhel, Dr. Cherag Bamboat, Gwen Athaide, and Bhuvneshwari. The pageant was the brainchild of Rekha Desai, who turned her dream into reality, presenting India’s first-ever senior citizen beauty contest. Hosted by Aman Verma, the event was filled with engaging Q&A sessions, captivating dance performances, and a beautiful tribute to timeless elegance.

The Rotaract Reunion revived our collective history, turning the occasion into a celebration of lasting memories. The evening began with a moving rendition of the national anthem, followed by a candlelight tribute and a moment of silence to honor the memories of three departed Rotaract members—Twiltina, Maggie, and Marquis—who had passed away in the last year. This tribute set a thoughtful and reflective tone for the gathering.

After a short break for coffee, tea, and snacks, Rotaracters moved on to a circle discussion where each member introduced themselves, sharing their stories and experiences. This was followed by a lively game of Bingo, which saw everyone brainstorming and competing for a unique prize—a wrinkle remover cream, generously sponsored by George and won by Akash.

Game On

As the evening transitioned into a cocktail party, the energy was palpable. The dance floor was alive with activity, and the joyous atmosphere was felt even by those who couldn’t attend, thanks to the continuous flow of photos and videos shared online. The enthusiasm was evident from messages pouring in from those who couldn’t be there in person.

 Sanjay Kshatriya from California expressed his joy, saying, “Damn!! Wonderful reunion. So glad to see everyone in one place. Thanks for the videos and pictures. Time has been really

Bingo Fun

kind; y’all look great.” Probal Tahbildar from New Jersey echoed the sentiment, reminiscing about past meetings and expressing regret over missing members. Pranta from San Francisco set up a virtual meeting to include those who couldn’t make it, ensuring they were part of the celebration.

Standing Together

Dinner was a feast of traditional dishes, rich curries, and indulgent treats, paired with crisp appetisers and drinks. As the evening drew to a close, mementos were presented, and there was a profound sense of bittersweet nostalgia. The reunion was such a success that members decided to make it an annual event.


The heartfelt messages from attendees captured the essence of the evening. Sanchita Nagaraj

Focussed Discussion

from Bangalore shared, “What a great feeling I am taking back with me. The organisers did an amazing job, and meeting all of you was a high.” Ashis Sabhrewal expressed his gratitude for the unforgettable evening, while Kausar praised the organisers and expressed his joy at meeting everyone in person.
Eva, Dora Rynjah, Siddiq, Alarisa, Imochaoba, Rajiv, Naz, and George all shared their appreciation for the event, celebrating the connections rekindled and the memories made. Even those who couldn’t attend, like Sapu, shared their regrets and anticipation for next year’s gathering.

Wancy summed it up beautifully, “A big thank you to all of you. Celebrating memories and making new ones last evening was truly special. I’m sincerely grateful to each one of you. Take care, and remember, the future belongs to those who never give up. God bless us all.”

The reunion in Shillong was more than just a meeting; it was a heartfelt celebration of lasting bonds and collective memories. As we all look forward to next year’s event, the memories from this gathering will surely stay with us for years to come. While writing this blog post and editing images and video clips, I felt so immersed that it almost felt like I was present in person at the Reunion—maybe next time, I’ll find a way to teleport myself there!

Bronte Park Picnic: Moments from Burlington to Bamkhana

Melodies in the Park: Members sing and strum

Michael & Yasmeen: A Burlington moment with Shillong's own

Old Friends, New Stories: Bankit Buron Rani and George Joseph catch up

Kwai Time: Betel nut, the true taste of Shillong

Tradition Meets Friendship: George Joseph with a Khasi lady in jainsem

Rotaract Reunion: Capturing the Spirit of Shillong

Reunion Moments: Capturing the heart of our gathering

Grace & Elegance: A glimpse of Ms. Senior India 2024

Non-stop Pulsating Music: Specially created for the grand Shillong Rotaract Reunion meet. Please note, this video may be partially blocked in some countries due to copyrights issues on certain tracks, despite my requests and explanations to YouTube

Roundtable Reflections: Members sharing introductions

Rotasia ’92 Nostalgia: Akash holds a piece of history

Friendly Exchange: Sanchita with Michael

Strike a Pose: Sanchita with the Rotaract crew

A Trio of Bonds: Michael with Rahul and Bikash

Engaging Moments: Members immersed in a lively bingo game

Ladies at Play: Brainstorming the Bingo game

Game On: Members deep in Bingo strategy

Names & Faces: A group photo with all members named

Shillong's Songbird: Niloufer in centre with fellow members Eva, Ela, Liza (Left)/ Alarisha, and Wancy (Right)

United in Memories: Group photo with Sanchita at the center

Candid Catch-Up: Jaideep, Param, Kausar, and Eva with George

A Regal Moment: Sanchita, Ms. Senior India 2024, with the ladies

Michael's Journey: Farewell Moments from Shillong to Delhi

Old Friends Reconnect: Michael, Lambok, and Jaideep relax post-Reunion on the sofa. Lambok couldn't make it to the Reunion meet. (Left) / Rekindled Bonds: Michael and George share smiles, enjoying an exclusive evening in Shillong. (Right)

Farewell Snapshot: Michael with members before departing Shillong

Members' Farewell Feast: Enjoying a memorable lunch at one of Shillong’s finest restaurants on the eve of Michael’s departure

Parting Moments: (Left) Michael with Emily in Guwahati, visiting her after she had to miss the Reunion due to a femur fracture. (Middle) Airport Trio: Michael, Moitreyee (ex-NEHU), and Maushumi (George's spouse) share a moment before Michael's departure, with George Chacko humorously dubbing him “Mikey, the ladies’ man.” (Right) Reconnecting in Delhi: Michael meets Manjuli Sharma, a prominent Shillong Rotaracter from the ’70s and ’80s, after landing in New Delhi.

Soaring High: Michael with hot air balloon pilot Imochaoba, capturing the surreal experience of flying over India’s landscape

Sky-High Moment: Michael captures a selfie while floating on a hot air balloon

December 6, 2023: A memorable mini gathering in Shillong during Pranta's visit

Timeless Memories: Restored Rotaract Stills from the '80s and '90s

Iconic 1984 Group Photo: A timeless memory with Usha Uthup and Rotaract members at her 1984 show in Shillong, held at Anjali Cinema Hall under the aegis of Shillong Rotary Club. This was part of a series of musical nights, with Usha’s debut in the city dating back to 1982, also organised by Rotary and Rotaract clubs.

 

Nostalgic Trio: While indulging in some good old nostalgia, I couldn’t resist a bit of digital detective work within our group’s treasure trove. There, I stumbled upon this iconic DP that just begged for some tender loving enhancement. In this delightful blast from the past, you’ll find the fabulous trio - Nightingale Niloufer, Maggie, looking as fantastic as ever, and the ever-charming Teacher Manjuli. All three sport radiant smiles, and the event badge proudly worn by Manjuli hints that this snapshot was taken during one of the memorable club conferences, way back either in 1982 or 1984.

Cheers to Friendship: Pranta, Jonathan, Michael, Jaideep, and a few others share a moment of laughter and drinks sometime in 1983

Colloquium '86: Jonathan and other members pose on a station wagon jeep at a hillock during a winter picnic at Barapani (Umiam Lake)

Relaxing and reminiscing: Michael, Eva, and friends at the 3rd Rotaract South Asian Conference, Aurangabad, 1994

Mid-90s Group Gathering: A group photo of Rotaract members along with a Rotarian guest, capturing the spirit of the mid-1990s

Community Service at Nongpoh: A group photo sometime in the mid 1990s at the Leprosy Colony in Nongpoh, run by the Sisters of Charity of Mother Teresa. This was one of many community service projects by Shillong Rotaract

Ghazal Moments: Pankaj Udhas with Rotaractors, State Central Library, Shillong. Fashion hints this might be 1989 or early 1990s. (Rotaract Club Event)

Pulse Polio Drive: A winter camp at Smit in the early 1990s. From left: Rotarian Ajay Gupta, Rotarian Dr. Elangbam Kameswar Singh, and Rotaractors Abhijit, Ela, Wansalan, Liza, and Michael in action. (Pulse Polio Event)

Magician's Charm: Renowned P.C. Sircar (Junior) with Rotaractors at State Central Library, Shillong, 1991. (Rotary Club of Shillong Event)

Focused Leadership: Liza on the dais with Rotaract board members, Rotarian, and guest. Likely from 1994. (Undated Event)

A Glimpse into the '70s: Historic Moments with Prime Minister Morarji Desai

As we celebrate the vibrant spirit of Rotaract through the decades, a significant moment from the 1970s adds even more depth to this gallery. Featured here is a photograph capturing the historic meeting of Shillong Rotaract members with Prime Minister Morarji Desai in 1977, at the prestigious Shillong Governor's House.

This event wasn't easy to organise. A small group of senior Rotaractors made numerous trips to the Deputy Commissioner's office to secure permission for the meeting. The DC Office insisted on receiving the names of the attendees, and finally, they allowed 25 members entry into the Raj Bhawan. Thanks to the efforts of Rotarian MIS Iyer, IPS, not only were the permissions granted, but an additional 5 members were also allowed to join, making it 30 Rotaractors present at the meeting.

During the interaction, Prime Minister Desai was in a jovial mood, engaging the young Rotaractors in a lively conversation. He answered questions on various topics, and when asked for autographs, he jokingly said he would only provide them if members vowed to promote Khadi traditional clothing! The lighthearted exchange left a lasting impression.

When it was time for the group photograph, the PM initially stood on the top of the stairs, but after the request from the members to come down to the lower step for a better frame, he humorously responded, "Why do you want to bring me down, let me stay at the top!" However, he obliged, stepping down and standing with the members, creating an unforgettable moment that has been cherished for decades.

Every member was impeccably dressed, reflecting the fashion trends of 1977. The men sported iconic bell-bottom trousers, block-heel shoes, boldly patterned shirts, broad lapels on coats, pointed shirt collars, and wide waist belts with large buckles. The women, meanwhile, looked stylish and elegant in their chic and tasteful outfits, perfectly capturing the era's vibe.

This iconic photograph is now available in two versions—one in its original black and white form, and a colorised version painstakingly restored, with each member identified and named. It's a treasured piece of Rotaract history that beautifully connects the past with the present.

A Moment of Honour: Rtr Nurul Laskar with Prime Minister Morarji Desai, who graciously signed the cover of the Rotaract newsletter Innovator at Nurul’s request, creating a cherished memory of the 1977 gathering

All these old photographs, I’ve carefully curated to reflect a time when the Shillong Rotaract Club was a true symbol of community service, representing unity and selflessness. From our annual visits to the Shillong Jail on Independence Day to supporting the Leprosy Colony and Orphan House at Nongpoh with essentials, toys, clothes and medicines, our efforts were tireless and full of dedication. We took pride in our vibrant projects—musical extravaganzas, walkathons, exhibitions, debates and even a fancy dress-cum-car-wash to raise funds for the less fortunate, which left a lasting impact on the community. Even during the turbulent 1980s and 1990s, when communal tensions ran high in Shillong, we stood firm, united by a shared commitment to service before self, transcending all faiths, languages, and beliefs. However, it’s deeply concerning that the club has ceased to function for over a decade. A probe gains traction, suggesting that during the IT revolution, the inability of key board members to integrate the club’s online and offline presence—failing to create a buzz with compelling projects—was a significant factor. The lack of mentoring by Rotarians only further fuelled the ‘natural death’ of the Shillong Rotaract Club. It deeply saddens us that this decline is a tragic end to what was once a dynamic and impactful group, and it certainly warrants a closer look.

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